Blending In (and Monterrey Spinach Artichoke Dip)

I have always been one of those people who blends in pretty easily. I don’t stand out in a crowd with my looks or personality. In high school, I wasn’t one of the most popular people, but I also wasn’t in the least popular group either. I was just kind of average, moving along happy where I was.

I haven’t changed much. In fact, I haven’t thought about the “popular” crowd concept much until I had a kid in grade school. It is interesting to see how the “cliques” form, once again, when we are adults. I always thought that once you were out of high school, you were past those cliques, but there always seems to be a group or two still interested in forming and being a part of the popular clique. You walk up to school to pick your kid up, and there is always that circle of mom’s who I like to call the “Barbie Brigade”. Beautiful, dressed to the nines, and socially hip. Those mom’s who couldn’t have possibly gained an ounce of fat by having their children. The mom’s who stand out in the crowd because they are put together and have an interesting aura around them.

Then, there is me… and lots of other moms like me. We walk up to school with one kid screaming at the top of her lungs because you made her put on a coat and the other dressed in striped pink tights, a red dress and hair sticking out everywhere because of the static electricity in the air. As the mom, by the time school is out for the day, the good hair day that lasted all of 10 minutes has gone all wrong. You realize that you are wearing one black shoe and one brown shoe and you can’t remember if you actually rinsed the shampoo out of your hair that morning when you were in the shower. Oh, you stand out all right… but not necessarily because you want to!

There are some things that the Barbie Brigade and the mom’s like me all have in common. If you take the time to dig a little deeper, your original thoughts about all of us may be a little different. Some of the mom’s in the Barbie Brigade are the nicest ladies I have met… and trust me, I’ve tried really hard to hate them. Some of them live up to your expectations as well. Same goes for the mom’s out there that simply blend in. You may think that they are off-putting or not interesting because they are so “normal”, but if you get the chance to know them you will find they have personalities that outshine even the most put together of moms.

This Monterrey Spinach Artichoke dip is a lot like those moms who blend in. If you were to pass it on an appetizer line, you most likely would not be too terribly tempted to try it. I mean, really… how much different can a Spinach Artichoke dip recipe be? Take it from me on this one – you want to get to know this dip. I don’t know if it is the Monterrey Jack cheese or what, but it has such a delicious and unique flavor you will be coming back for more and more.

Monterrey Spinach Artichoke Dip (from my friend Emily)

1 pkg (8 oz.) frozen spinach, defrosted
1 can (13 oz.) artichoke hearts, non-marinated, drained
2 cloves garlic, minced
2 pkg (16 oz. total) cream cheese, softened
1 cup heavy cream (or milk)
1 cup shredded Monterey Jack
1/2 cup shredded parmesan

Preheat oven to 350 degrees (or use a crockpot). Mix the spinach, artichokes, garlic, cream cheese, cream, 1/2 cup Monterey Jack and Parmesan in food processor. If you are doing the crockpot recipe, just add the entire cup of Monterey Jack cheese instead of a 1/2 cup. Place in oven safe dish and top with remaining 1/2 cup of Monterey Jack. Bake covered for 15 minutes, remove cover and bake 10 minutes longer.

*I use the crockpot for this recipe. I just throw everything in there and cook on high for about an hour until it is heated through and the cheese is melted. Watch it carefully though because if it gets too hot, it will burn*

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  1. says

    You crack me up! I can totally relate to the crazy look’in kids and the mismatched shoes! This dip sounds easy and delicious – I think I will make it for my next MOPS meeting.

  2. says

    Kristen – why is that I can relate to just about everything you write? Maybe it’s the midwestern girl in me! I totally agree, that looks can be deceiving … some of those put-together moms are such fun to be around. So, hopefully, they’ll notice those of us who are not so put-together and see we are pretty fun, too. :)

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  3. says

    Great post!!!! I didn’t know we met before… Oh wait, you were talking about yourself not me! 😉 I was the same way all the time… like in HS and now… I soooo get what you are saying and I sooo agree about the Barbie Brigade. They are nice. My sisters happen to be friends with many of this sort and frankly… they are so nice and cute… You can’t do anything but want to be their friend. A couple I found out were not very social or talking to others only because they were shy!

    PS. As one who is not a morning person, even BEFORE the kids, I once went to work with one black pump and one navy pump! They weren’t eve the same exact show or even the exact height (close)! Ha ha ha.

    PPS. Your dip sounds quite dipable and I don’t ever pass up a dip!

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